Show Me The Way

Life is like sea-water; it never gets quite sweet until it is drawn up into heaven. ~J.P. Richter

 

"Waterfall"

While visiting England in May with Paul, I discovered a place where the essence of my daughter resided. We had made plans to spend a day apart  in the city. For me, it was a chance to explore the alley ways, cobblestones and structures which compose Hays Galleria situated in the London Borough of Southwark. For my partner, it was an opportunity to take a tour of the Chelsea Museum and Stadium tour of Stamford Bridge. 

As I wandered the pathway by the River Thames, I delighted in taking snapshots of London, through the lens of Shayla’s camera. Vibrant images of renowned landmarks caught my attention. If I found an alley to saunter along, I took it. If a door caught my attention, I opened it and if I felt led to an area…I meandered through the narrow streets to discover what lay ahead.

Nearing a public area in Horselydown Square, I was drawn in by the mesmerizing sound of water. I slowly walked, yet felt guided to a fountain of grand proportions. The exceptional design had streams of water playfully spouting outwards and down over a basin. Delicate characters of woman, frolicked- immersed in and around- for dramatic effect. Around the foundation of the fountain were a variety of items which immediately struck a chord with me. A journal and pen, a camera, sunglasses and a wallet were cast in bronze. These images gripped at my tender heart as several of them had been returned to me… on the day my daughter passed away. The pair of sculptured dancing shoes, found my tears match the flow of water trickling, down the side of the cistern. 

 

A Disney Chinese New Year Envelope with The Heart Pebble Movement link inside, propped against the bronze camera

The creation of artwork entitled “Waterfall” was created in 1991 by Antony Donaldson and characterizes the free-spirit of womanhood, in all of its glory.

Surrounded by the monumental love and bond I continue to share with my beloved daughter, I knew she had led me to this. It was a chance to ponder, and embrace all that we had shared in 21 years on earth, together.

A Pebble release of Amethyst- Shayla's birthstone

I left briefly to find the tiny, quaint flower shop I had seen, along my way. After speaking with a man from Paris and sharing the story of Shayla, he created a delicate arrangement for me to place at the fountain. When he gave it to me, he could see the pain within and wished me reconciliation with my loss. 

Returning to the “Waterfall,” I closed my eyes for a moment and honoured the place I was in. Then I penned heartfelt sentiments to my babygirl and left the card with the bouquet. 

In finding such an extraordinary creation, amongst the stones and brickwork, I know that Shayla would want me to see the light in all things. Thankfully, flickering through the darkness I carried that day… was the grace of illumination… opening my eyes and my heart to its very existence. 

Down To the River to Pray ~ Alison Krauss

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By T.L. Alton

THYME ON 43RD ~ Brookswood Luminaire

When people lose someone they love, the inclination to forget self-care is a consistent factor in the grieving process. Recently, it was brought up in conversation that I must be doing well as I am able to write posts in my blog. I shudder at the notion that someone can define me as in good health, merely because I chose to share words. For me to be carrying on daily, it takes every bit of strength and courage; even to face the world. It is much easier to ‘hide’ behind a computer screen than to actually be in society on a regular basis. When I do venture out, it is to specific places where I feel that I will be in control. Additionally, I prefer locations which reflect the harmony I am seeking.  

THYME ON 43^RD JAPANESE GARDENS is one of those settings that transformed my intention of finding some peace into reality. This stunning place was discovered in December of last year, when I was not looking forward to the holiday season.

Upon arriving at the location in Langley, B.C, the grounds had been transformed into a breathtaking winterscape of brilliant LED lights, Christmas décor and a fusion of warmth; all found in the outdoor structures. 

Every detailed adornment was blended in a whimsical style. Combining the beauty of nature with exceptional golden baubles, lighted deer and a captivating angel, gave the impression of tranquility layered with elegance. 

 My attention was pulled in many directions as I kept finding the loveliest of objects interspersed amongst the Japanese Gardens. Walking over the wooden bridge, I was drawn in by the sound of a cascading waterfall, which plunged into a pond filled with multicolored Koi fish. I strolled along the stone interlocked with lush thyme and found myself, along with my partner, being welcomed by the element of fire at the outdoor hearth.

It was pointed out the roof covering the seating area was active with living plants, which promote a clean atmosphere and is a habitat for birds in the area to come nest. All of the spectacular grounds were created and designed by native Japanese landscapers. 

As a person who has volunteered many years of dedication to community and assisting others, I understand the value and importance of giving back. What impressed me with THYME ON 43^RD JAPANESE GARDENS was the owner- Evelyn Faulkner’s purpose for opening her one- acre gardens to the general public; for a period of time back in December. She kindly asked for any donations to be made at the gate entrance to the gardens, in support of Ronald McDonald House. 

A recent post by Evelyn Faulkner on THYME ON 43^RD JAPANESE GARDENS Facebook page states:    

“Thank you to everyone for their generous donations to Ronald McDonald House during our recent event, Brookswood Luminaire! We raised $5200.00 which enables a family to stay at the house for 80 nights! Well done!”

As I am not on Facebook anymore, I was fortunate to still be able to access the update and provide to my readers, the generous contributions people made over the holiday season, to the worthy cause of Ronald McDonald House.

Being a mother who has lost a child, I was able to connect with Evelyn Faulkner’s purpose of supporting an organization that assists families when they are facing challenging times. For me, I found grace under the shelter of palm trees, in the midst of a darken night aglow with marvelous simplicity. It was a place where I could abandon my sorrow and accustom myself to the sheer idea of wellness. 

This one evening in December, uncertain of what I may find, I was greeted by the devotion of those wanting to share the true essence of what Christmas is all about: to stir the imagination, ignite the senses and find the light within all of us. 

By T L. Alton 

* I would like to further add THYME ON 43RD  JAPANESE GARDENS is seeking Corporate Sponsorship. As Evelyn would like to open her garden 1 day a week for respite, for caregivers and people needing healing in any way. If she were able to secure Sponsorship, she considers it a blessing.

* Thyme on 43rd is located at 21004 43 Ave. For further information on booking THYME ON 43^RD JAPANESE GARDENS for Fundraisers, Private Tours and Events, Contact: info@thymeon43rd.com or 

Telephone: 604-534-5902